Saturday, 2 January 2016

A Thing For

I've always had a thing for white caucasians.

Then I had a thing for Chinese mix.

Now I have a thing for Filipinos.

But most importantly, I like the versatiles best.

Thursday, 25 December 2014


I've never connected this well with a guy I met on Grindr.

He's kinda hot in a goofy way. Does SBR (Swim, Bike Run) and Gym. Kinda nerdy. Not a techie, but somehow we manage to talk. I think the nerdiness helped. :)  He also seems to be down to earth and fairly homely.

Unfortunately, he had to go back to KL over Christmas as his mum was suddenly taken ill, so it'll be a while before I get to meet him in person. :(

Thursday, 4 December 2014

Reddit R4R

Wrote the following post on Reddit's R4R sub-reddit. Sums up what I've been looking for.

Looking for a relationship, but my social awkwardness makes it hard for me.

Generally, I have a thing for guys who are fairly similar to me - techie, computer-sciencey, geeky, loves endurance sports and tries to stay healthy. Great if you are a practising triathlete and willing to teach me proper swim techniques. :) Otherwise, I'm perfectly capable of running a marathon or a 100km bike ride.

It's gonna be a needle in a haystack, but maybe some Redditor might fit the bill.

I'm a shortie at 163cm and the oriental look is dominant in me. Preference is for someone of not more than 10 cm shorter or taller, but that's not a dealbreaker for me. Just looking for someone to do geeky and fitness stuff together and cuddle over a cup of hot cocoa.


Just realised that about a year ago, I had already posted about what I was looking for.

So that means I've been trying to look for what I wanted to no avail. That's how sad my life is.

What I Want

Finally realised what kind of person I really want: an IT/soft-dev geek who loves endurance running, cycling and swimming and the great outdoors.

I have a weird dream of wanting to complete a triathlon together and pushing each others fitness boundaries as well as to share geeky stuff and do geeky things together. Someone who understands C#, PHP, Ruby, Java, etc. Someone to crack geeky jokes with each other.

Basically a freaking clone of myself. I really think I could fuck a clone. We'll probably understand each other very well.

Probably a needle in a haystack; maybe even tiny grain of sand. Looks I'm destined to be alone.


Tuesday, 28 January 2014

I realise that the older you get without being in a relationship, the easier it seems to accept one night stands. :(

Tuesday, 24 December 2013


Was just thinking about why I'm still alone even though I've been out for 7 years. I think it's probably because I'm looking for someone who is almost a clone of myself. :(